What changes a relationship after marriage ?

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

I just got a  text from my school friend, saying “ gals 

it's my roka(Engagement) on 29th of this month…

 you all have to come.” Hundreds of messages 

followed after the big news. The inactive members 

also congratulated her and wanted to know who

 “the” guy was?? She shared the picture and 

we all recognized her high school

 sweetheart. 

The too  be bride couldn't stop gushing about 

her Love 💘. The kisses and the hugs.

 The proposal and the insane lover boy attitude.

 How he takes care of her crazily. 

Showers expensive gifts on her. 

She told us that he loves her so much that little

 things like her undone nails also bother him,

 how she opens her hair and always gets the

 perfect nail art done because  he likes it. 

Her endless stories made me wonder, 

have I grown up too fast ?? I mean 

I have totally given up on my relationship

,rather on myself when it comes to getting

 dressed.I got married when I was 18 and now

 after 12 years, these mushy stories sound 

so stupid to me. I mean my husband likes 

it when I open my hair but helloooo 

it's hot and stupid to open hair and roam 

around in the house. Imagine when your

 3 year old wants to stay in your arms all day

 and your open tangled hair keeps

 falling on her face!! 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

I understand that I might sound lame to some

 of you. Some of you who love getting dressed, 

not to please anyone but for your own happiness

. But we all are not same.

 I am somebody who gets dressed once

 in a blue moon( whenever I want to) and

 pajamaz are my style statement. 

Hearing  love stories of my friends makes me

 wonder whether it is always men who are responsible

 for the constant fights after marriage ?? 

Certainly not, then what makes it all change after marriage?

 Why is it not important for him to get flowers for her ?

 And why is she not excited to see him in the evening??

 The enthusiasm dies and we start taking things

 for granted and major changes come in

 a relationship when you have your first child. 

Your priorities start changing majorly after a kid. 

The focus, the attention totally gets diverted towards

 the kid.But  one thing that should not change

 is respect for each other. Our partner should be 

our friend, who loves to fight but can't see us sad.

P.S. let's play Tom and Jerry with our life partner for life😉

What do you guys think??